WHAT I REALISED……

Often people come across this question as to who they really are and f we are happy or not…..there are many times when we wear an invisible mask on our face n order to please ppl…but the question is…is that what we really want?? do we really need to live a life pleasing ppl?? how many of us really know the true “us” and how many of us are really confident to protray the real u or the real me??? 🙂 1 thing that i have realised is jus be what u r…..no matter what people say no matter how much they try to change u to what they want u to be…..as far as u are happy nothing else matters….u know in life we all come accross a lot of ups n downs….we lose confidence n hope, to be frank may be the ones who we thought really knew us and were our true friends will be the first ones to back stab us….thats when people fear to show or be what they truely are…its cos dey fear to lose ppl who are close to dem..but jusan insight to this…dont u think ppl should love u more for wht u truely are??? true friends vl never ask u to change for dem or behave in a manner that pleases dem…its really sad n heart breaking to how cruel nd selfish human kind cud be…

Such a thing happend in my very recently….being a socialite i hv lot of frends n and out of colg….taking n making frends is somthng tht i hav always enjoyed doing….m a very cheerful,bubbly,freedom loving,sensitive and a total hyper person…..i love listenin to music n watch movies…..and when am that jobless i let out the creative side of me…..so while living happily one fine day last week i happen to notice my close frends behaving oddly….it really hurted me as i had mentioned above m really sensitive….i askd n all dey did was jus smile ater that evening we had a group chat…woow u wont believe it 3 couple n me….the single me btwn 3 couple who kpt critising me saying i changed n all tht….wht the hell….i was so totally confused tht it tuk me some tym to cum to reality and realise tht dey really didnt knw the true me…ppl change like duh dey do….hu remains constant?? den dey r not human….u show hu u truely r to those u r really comfortable wid n if dey cant accept me for wht dey r dey shudnt try to change me to wht dey want….does it really matter to them if i change or not??? wht matters is f m happy or not…..n its been 2 weeks i hav never seen myslf so distrubed n frustrated…..wht a good way to end college…..3 years of friendship all ends wid misunderstanding n selfishness…..srsly der wr always tyms whn i used to keep fighting wid my parents over my friends n mom used to tell me never to trust every1 u never know hu ur true friends….and i think i have learnt my share….i bet my people out there must have had the same experience like i did at some point in their lifes to….to all those ppl who have ever be ditched by their frends or lover jus know ” u too good for dem” u deserve to be wid ppl hu will treat u for wht u r and love u more than u can ever imagine….. 😀 life is awesome if u stop worrying to much nd stop being to concerned about others….life live it love it nd feel it……make everyday worth living nd love evrythng u do by doing wht u love 😉